January 22, 7:00pm
TKG @ St.Andrew’s Church, 301 Ave D in Redondo Beach
The Knowing Garden Community School is happy to welcome trusted advocate for children and parents, Dr. Laura Markham, to our community.
You’ve heard that Emotional Intelligence (EQ) may be more important to your child’s success in life than IQ. Dr.Laura Markham of Aha!Parenting.com translates the research on emotional intelligence into practical everyday routines and strategies to help you raise a high EQ child.
•How you can help your child develop high EQ.
•How children learn to manage anger, hurt, disappointment and other strong feelings.
•Why emotional intelligence gives kids inner discipline and gets you out of the discipline business.
• Strategies to handle your own strong emotions so you can help your child.
Dr. Laura Markham,the author of Peaceful Parent, Happy Kids:How to Stop Yelling and Start Connecting, loves to answer audience questions about their kids. Join us to celebrate her new book!
Dr. Laura writes extensively about parenting as the editor-in-chief at AhaParenting.com, the website of Aha! moments for parents of kids from birth through the teen years. Her daily and weekly newsletters are read by more than 20,000 parents daily.
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THE KNOWING GARDEN is a community Elementary school for the children and families of the Greater South Bay area. Now open at St.Andrew’s Church in Redondo Beach, our school recognizes humans as natural learners and respects students’ rights to choice, freedom and collaboration. We believe that a project-rich curriculum facilitated by hands-on learning and real-life experiences will prepare our students to be critical thinkers who become lifelong learners and active contributors to the global community. With credentialed teachers, holistic practices, creativity, and low-ratios, our learning plans emerge in partnership with each child. Our students, from diverse backgrounds, become part of a greater community that values connection, mindfulness, divergent thinking, confidence and concern for the Earth. THE KNOWING GARDEN is a not-for-profit school with a public purpose. A 501(c)3 Organization.
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INNOVATIONS In early education: the international reggio exchange/ September 2001
THE PEDAGOGY OF LISTENING: The Listening Perspective from Reggio Emilia
By Carlina Rinaldi
Carlina Rinaldi is the Pedagogical Consultant for Reggio Children and was formerly the Pedagogical Director of the Reggio Emilia Municipal Early Childhood Centers. Car/ina is currently on leave from her position as professor at Bologna University. During the fall 2001 semester, she is a visiting professor at Webster University in St. Louis, Missouri. The following is based on a chapter in Making Learning Visible: Children as Individual and Group Learners, published by Reggio Children in 2001.
This article was originally published in Children in Europe, Issue 1,
Message from the author
I wanted to re-write this article after the terrible attacks in New York and Washington. Instead, I have chosen to offer some initial reflections to preface the article. 1 strongly feel that the contents of the article take on new values and meanings in the light of the tragedy that devastated all of us. During th<”se days, it has been strongly suggested to listen to children. This word “listening,” this concept, seems to have become more acknowledged, shared, and practiced. But this attitude cannot be limited only to this emergency; we have to listen to chil dren not only because we can help them but also because they can help us.
We should listen to the children, so that they can express their fears but also for them to give us the courage to face our fears, for them and with them.
We should listen to the children so that their wisdom gives us comfort, so that their “whys” orient our search for the reasons and give us the strength to find non-violent, honest and responsible answers.
We should listen to the children so that their words give us the courage for the future and help us to find a new way to dialogue with the children and with ourselves
Listening is fundamental to the world famous municipal early childhood centers in Reggio Emilia, Ita”ly, which serve children aged zero to six years. It is the basis for the program’s pedagogical approach and for its political approach, which involves a democratic dialogue with the families, the town and culture. This article explores what listening to children means in Reggio Emilia.
The search for meaning
listening plays an important part in achieving an objective that has always characterized our experi ence in Reggio: the search tor meaning. We under stand the school (which, for us, is the early child• hood center) as a place that plays an active role in the search tor meaning -the meaning of the
children and adults as well as their shared meanings. One of the first questions we ask ourselves as educa tors is: ‘How can we help children find meaning in what they do, what they encounter; what they experience? And how can we do this for ourselves?” ln the search tor meaning, we must ask: “why?” “how?’ and ‘what?’ These are the key questions that children constantly ask, both in and out of school.
lt is a difficult search, especially tor children who have so many reference points in their daily lives: family, television, school and the social places they frequent. But we cannot live without meaning; it would preclude any sense of identity, any hope or any future. Children know this; they have the desire and the ability to search tor the meaning of life and their own sense of self as soon as they are born. This is why we, in Reggio, view children as active, competent and strong, exploring and finding meaning – not as predetermined, fragile, needy and incapable.
For both adults and children, understanding means being able to develop an interpretive theory, a narra tive that gives meaning to the world around them. For us, in Reggio, these theories are extremely important in revealing how children think, question and interpret reality, and their own relationships with reality and with us.
These theories are provisional and can be continu ously re-worked. To be useful and to meet our needs, they should offer us satisfactory explanations that are pleasing and convincing. Theories should also please and be attractive to others. They need to be listened to by others. Expressing our theories to others trans forms a world which is not intrinsically ours into something shared. Sharing theories is a response to uncertainty. This is the reason why any theory, in order to exist, neeto be expressed, communicated and listened to by others. Herein lies the basis tor the “pedagogy of relationships and listening,” which distinguishes the work in Reggio Emilia.
The meanings of listening
• Listening should be sensitive to the patterns that connect us to others. Our understanding and our own being are a small part of a broader, inte grated knowledge that holds the universe together.
• Listening should be open and sensitive to the need to listen and be listened to, and the need to listen with a// our senses, not just with our ears.
• Listening should recognize the many languages, symbols and codes that people use in order to express themselves and communicate.
• listening to ourselves, “internal listening,’ encourages us to listen to oth-ers but, in turn, is generated when others listen to us.
• listening as time. 1/vtlen you really listen, you get into the time of dialogue and interior reflection, an interior time that is made up of the present but also past and future time and is, therefore, outside chronological time. lt is a time full of silences.
• Listening is generated by curiosity, desire, doubt and uncertainty. This is not insecurity but the reassurance that every “truth’ is so only if we are aware of its limits and its possible falsification.
• Listening produces questions, not answers.
• Listening is emotion. It is generated by emotions; it is influenced by the emotions of others; and it stimulates emotions.
• Listening should welcome and be open to differences, recognizing the value of the other’s point of view and interpretation.
• Listening is an active verb, which involves giving an interpretation, giving meaning to the message and value to those who are being listened to by others.
• Listening is not easy. It requires a deep awareness and a suspension of our judgements and prejudices. It requires openness to change. It demands that we value the unknown, and overcome the feelings of emptiness and precariousness that we experience when our certainties are questioned.
• Listening removes the individual from anonymity (and children cannot bear to be anonymous). lt legitimizes us and gives us visibility. It enriches both those who listen and those who produce the message.
• Listening is the basis for any learning relation ship. Through action and reflection, learning takes shape in the mind of the subject and, through representation and exchange, becomes knowledge and skill.
• Listening takes place within a “listening context,” where one learns to listen and narrate, and each individual feels legitimized to represent and offer interpretations of her or his theories through action, emotion, expression and representation, using symbols and images (the “hundred languages”). Understanding and awareness are generated through sharing and dialogue.
Children as llsteners
The capacity for listening and reciprocal expectation is an important quality, enabling communication and dialogue, and demands to be understood and supported. In fact, it abounds in young children, who are the greatest listeners to the world that surrounds them. They listen to life in all its sh”\)eS and colors. They listen to others- adults and peers. They quickly perceive how listening is essential for communication.
From the beginning, children demonstrate that they have a voice, know how to listen and want to be listened to by others. Sociability is not taught to children: they are social beings. Young children are strongly attracted by the ways, the languages (and thus the codes) that our culture has produced as we\\ as by other people. Listening, therefore, seems to be an innate predisposition, present from birth, which support5 children’s process of acculturation.
This is a difficult path that requires energy, hard work and, sometimes, suffering. But it also offers wonder, joy, enthusiasm and passion. It is a path that takes time -time that children have and adults often do not, or do not want to have. This is where the school comes in; it should first and foremost be a “context of multiple listening,” involving the teachers and children, individually and as a group, who should listen to each other and themselves. This concept of a context of multiple listening overturns the traditional teaching-learning relationship. The focus shifts to learning- children’s self-learning, and the learning achieved by the group of children and adults together.
Listening and documentation
As children communicate their mental images or theories to others, they also represent them to them selves, developing a more conscious vision. This is what “internal listening” means.By moving from one language to another, and one field of experience to another, and by reflecting on these shifts, children modify and enrich their theories. But this is true if, and only if, children have the opportunity to make these shifts in a group context – with others – and if they have the chance to Wsten and be listened to by others, to express their differences and be receptive to the differences of the others. The task of those who educate is not only to allow the differences to be expressed, but to make it possible for them to be negotiated and nurtured through exchanging and comparing ideas. ln this way, not only does the indi vidual child learn how to learn, but the group becomes conscious of itself as a “teaching place,” where the languages are enriched, multiplied,refined and generated but also where they collide and hybridize with each other, and are renewed.
In addition to offering support and mediation to the children, the teacher who knoWs how to observe, document and interpret these processes will realize his or her own full potential as a learner- in this case, learning how to teach. Documentation can be seen as visible listening: it ensures listening and being listened to by others. This means producing traces- such as notes, slides and videos- to make visible the ways the individuals and the group are learning. This ensures that the group and each child can observe themselves from an external viewpoint while they are learning (both during and after the process).
A broad range of documentation (videos, tape recordings, written notes, etc.):
• makes visible the learning processes and strategies used by each child, though always in a partial and subjective way;
• enables reading, revisiting and assessment these actions become integral to the knowledge building process;
• seems to be essential for meta-cognitive processes, and for the understanding of children and adults.
Observation, documentation and interpretation are woven together into what l would define as a “spiral movement,• in which none of these actions can be separated out from the others. It is impossible, in fact. to document without observing and interpret ing. By means of documenting, the thinking or the interpretation of the documenter becomes tangible and capable of being interpreted. The notes, the recordings, the slides and photographs represent fragments of a memory. While each fragment is imbued with the subjectivity of the documenter, it is also subject to the interpretation of others, as part of a collective process of knowledge building. In these fragments lie the past and also the future (i.e., ’What else could happen if …”).The result is knowledge that is bounteous, co-constructed and enriched by the contributions of many.
by Gwen Dewar, Ph.D.
Years ago, it would have been science fiction. You get diabetes because your grandfather didn’t get enough to eat as a child? You suffer from clinical anxiety because your father was a stressed-out teenager?
But thanks to the study of epigenetics, these scenarios have become the subject of mainstream science.
We’ve learned that our DNA, or genetic code, doesn’t always function the same way. Our genes come packaged in little chemical “wrappers,” wrappers that are formed, in part, under the influence of the environment. Are you stressed out? Starving? Exposed to toxins? These experiences can change the molecular shape of the wrappers, and the shape can determine whether a specific gene gets “turned on” or “turned off.”
This, in part, explains why identical twins become less similar over time. Each individual experiences somewhat different environments, and those environmental experiences may change which genes get activated. As a result, one twin might get cancer at the age of 60, while the other stays healthy.
And here’s the important twist for our discussion: It turns out these epigenetic changes can get passed down to your offspring and grandchildren. Childhood adversity can, in effect, re-program the way our genes work, and the effects can last for generations.
How do researchers figure this stuff out? Read More at BabyCenter.com
The AERO conference Keynotes are being broadcast on USTREAM. It all started with is Naomi Aldort on Thursday night. Tonight (Friday) will be Sir Ken Robinson’s talk titled “Transforming Education” at 6:30pm PDT.
Saturday night, the keynote by Jerry Mintz & Occupy Portland will be livestreamed at about 7:15pm PDT and then Sunday morning Yaacov Hecht’s keynote will be livestreamed at 10:30am PDT.
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